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Support the Mental Health Foundation's Christmas Appeal 2008
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Why support us?

 

 

People often steer clear of people in distress. They're scared of saying the wrong thing, or getting into a situation they can’t handle.

 

This can make a person in distress feel more isolated and rejected often making their problems seem a lot worse.

 

We want to show people that they can ease someone else's desperation.

 

Our aim is to create a first aid kit where people can get simple, practical advice on how to help someone in emotional or mental distress. 

 

David's Story 

 

When David’s friend Sue became depressed last year, he felt totally useless.

 

“She looked really dreadful - I could tell something was seriously wrong, but I just kept thinking: ‘I’m not qualified to deal with this’. I didn’t know what to do, so I did nothing.”

 

Sue ended up trying to take her own life. David knew it wasn’t his fault, but he has spent many months since feeling worried and ashamed that he didn’t act.

 

Our information will be accessible online 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and we will also be making it available through media awareness campaigns and leaflets in workplaces, GP surgeries, shops and cafes.

 

Just like first aid for physical health, people can offer immediate care or first aid, which is easy to learn and effective.

 

By telling people how to offer this sort of help, we will ensure fewer people have to go through the frightening experience of a mental health crisis on their own.

 

By making a donation to this project, you are helping friends, family and colleagues of people in crisis learn how to support those close to them.

 

For someone in distress, this could not only end their isolation and stop things getting worse, it could even save their life.

 

You can help

 

Support us to give people the help they really need to support someone at a crucial time.

 

  • Tell us what has or would have helped you in times of mental distress in the forum below
Tell us about your experiences

 

By telling us about what has or would have helped you in times of mental distress in the forum below, we can use your experiences and ideas to inform our work.

 

You really can make a difference to someone in distress.

 

How can your gift help?

 

  • £25 can help us put mental health first aid information into 50 chemists, cafes or GP surgeries

 

  • £50 can help us give online mental health first aid to 3,500 people who need support

 

  • £100 can help us offer mental health first aid through newspapers, magazines and radio

 

  • £500 can provide a researcher for 5 days to help us find more solutions to support people experiencing mental distress

Please be as generous as you can – thank you so much for your support

 

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Want to get help now?

 

Maybe you, or someone you know, needs to get some support now. Find out how.

Christina's Story

 

"I remember the difference in my friends’ attitudes when I had a mental and then a physical health problem.

 

When I was diagnosed with depression, my friend told me get on with my life and had negative opinions about my medication.

 

All I really wanted was someone to hold my hand and listen.

 

Then, when I had back pain she did so many things to help – she had read a fact sheet and her manner was so different.”

TopicLast Post

Making me laugh (2 Replies)

Although, I do need to taken seriously when I talk to people about my problems, sometimes trying to see the lighter side can really help me to relax.

Its hard (2 Replies)

Sometimes it is just too hard to know, I wish I could have more knowledge on what I could do. Its the limbo of not knowing that is the hard thing. More information means better preparation.

making a difference (2 Replies)

The person who made the most difference to me when I was going through a hard time just listened. She didn't make judgemental remarks and didn't tell me what I should or shouldn't do. I think this was because she had suffered depression herself and knew this what was needed.

Someone to lean on (1 Replies)

A hug is the greatest thing of all, a wordless show of support, of care, of protection, when you feel truly alone and isolated. Talking about the problem doesn't help for me - it makes it worse - talking about inconsequential things like music, or a program that's on the TV can help alot. The most important thing is to know someone, somewhere really does care about you, and cares that you exist.

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